Monthly Archives: December 2016

ZisforZipitup.

by Jan
Last letter of the alphabet and this may, or may not be the last post of 2016.

Either way, time to zip this alphabet challenge up.

2016 — will be a year to remember for a long time. My motto was “Simply the Best” and I will say it was and it wasn’t.

Some really horrid things happened this year, and there have been real struggles. Still, a lot of really wonderful things happened as well.

I keep a jar of goodness on my desk, and when I think of it, I drop a note of gratitude in.

This morning I had a peak.

goodness

Here in no particular order here are a few slips of good from this year.

New Mexico in May!

My 61st birthday dinner at Gabriel’s with Dick, Sarah, Dorian, Nini, Sara, Art, Ty, Deb, Clevenger, and Ken.

Dogs! Otis, Rumi and Moser all came for visits. Boze came to stay. Life is better with Dog!

Aquafit and the pool people!

Cars! We sold the little red car, and the Okanagan camper, and bought a brand new Chevy Cruise, a Subaru forester and a fancy dancy Road Trek.

Yards sales! Pretty much best casino canada every Saturday, Ken and I would make the rounds in Sechelt and check out the yards sales. We have a lot fun, picking stuff up and putting it down again.

Big hit of the year was shooting golfs with my brother Art, in the back yard on Manhattan Loop.

Andrea and I napping while Ken rowed us around in the Inlet.

Daily walks and taking at least 10,000 steps most days.

I read 50 books this year. (This includes listening to audio books)

Road trip to Tofino and watching the Canadian Snow Birds fly over us as we waited for the ferry.

First trip in the Road Trek, to Campbell River and Quadra Island. We brought home Boze.

Quite a few friends came to visit. Mel and Jan. Linda, Troy and Kathy, Ross and Tyler, Andrea, Laura, Marian, Peter, Tamsin to name only a few.

Signing up to cook a monthly dinner for the local shelter.

Our life is better because of Patti. She keeps our house clean.

Ken turned 70 and he is strong and healthy.

We celebrated 33 years of wedded bliss.

The trees across the street came down and our view really opened up!

Patrick, the guy who gives us massages

New artwork on the walls from. Kayleen, Lainey, Jerome, Barbara and Annie.

Road trip to the ranch. Three weeks in a van, with Ken is just the way I like to travel.

The Parker boys selling a section of the ranch.

Skype!

Being told I’m a good cook.

Being able to say we have local friends and good neighbours.

The generosity of my brother Ty.

Le Creuset cookware —need I say more!

Climbing Black Mesa. This is one of the top 10 things I’ve done in my entire life.

Being reassured I do not have brain cancer.

Monica, MayLynn and Sarah — healers who helped.

Ken being generous with foot rubs.

This jar of goodness.

It is easy to complain and worry, but it’s just as easy to find the goodness in life. I look forward to filling this jar again in 2017.

YisforYikesandYay!

by Jan

Our next door neighbour is a real hero.

rescue-photo

Ty Brackett, not only was he the guy that cut the trees down across the street, opening up our view, he’s a community hero as well. Ty is volunteer fireman and was called out to save this woman whose car went over the embankment and into a river, and he did it!

Reading the article in the paper and seeing the photo, at first I said Yikes! Then I said Yay!

I have to admit I am proud to know the man that lives next door is “one of those guys.” You know, the one who comes when called and knows what to do.

It is nice to know that in our community we’ve got some brave guys who are not only trained, but are willing to help us, when we get in trouble, even if we are in freezing water!

Ken and I spoke to Ty about his experience. He was humble, also a bit chuffed. He emphasized that all the hours of training came together and paid off when it was needed.

He said he was happy that he knew what to do with confidence. That it felt great to have saved a persons life. He also said, any of us (meaning the other firemen) could have done it.

Salute to our good neighbours, firemen, and rescue workers! And thank you.

XisfornotarealXword

by Jan

Our friend Frank is a very clever man. He is funny and quick witted. We have a lot of fun pointing out the silly ways of the world.

One day, sitting around the table, he mentioned that if someone was extraordinary — does that just mean they’ve taken ordinary a bit far?

Can an ordinary person have that extra something to their ordinariness or are they just more ordinary than others?

Word play. I love it.

X is one of 26 letters. Nothing special by itself, but with word play, we give it that X-factor.

Quite often, I am mistaken for another person when I go out. I have no big X-factor, I have a very common look. I’m ordinary. I am one in the world of billions, a woman among women, and friend among friends.

I’m more than fine with this. Being special in the world is not as important to me as being special with Ken, family and friends.

I know I’ve done some good work, and touch a few lives so far. I am lucky. I know how to learn. and I know how to share.

I am loved and safe. I have reasonable health, and enough money. Ken is a good husband, we live in a nice place, and have wonderful friends, good brothers, and a goofy dog,

It kinda sounds like I’m boasting, but really In my opinion, I find this all most extraordinary.

You could say, I’ve taken ordinary to the next level.

WisforWherehaveallthebloggysgone?

by Jan

It’s pretty obvious that I’m not keeping up with this bloggy thing.

I’m not the only one.

Like so many in the world I have morning routines. Over the years, of course they’ve changed. We wouldn’t be alive if things didn’t change. One thing I used to do everyday was to check the bloggy sites of several friends. They are all still bookmarked, and I still check on them often.

Without naming names here — I will say NONE of them have continued the habit of a personal, public diary and I miss them. And, three people have let me know they miss this one.

While my commitment to write everyday has wained. I continue to think about it but, my fingers don’t head for the keyboard the way they used to. My mind doesn’t come up with topics or insight like in the past and my opinions are not as strong as they used to be, or maybe my ability to express them isn’t.

November came and went; I didn’t even try to write for NaNoWriMo. For years I would write 1,000 words everyday during the month. Not many made sense, I posted very few, but I wrote. This year… meh.

My writing these days can be found on birthday cards and a few holiday cards. Not totally news worthy, still thoughts of love and admiration are expressed, and who doesn’t like getting real mail?

Anna once told me the secret to a good letter is to mention at least one interesting thing. That’s true for a bloggy thing as well.

Interesting things abound but, like others, I find I’m just not writing (or posting) my two cents about them.

I said I wasn’t going to name names, but I lied. I miss reading the blogs of Jenny, Marian, heather, Kayleen, Nancy, and Jim, to name just a few. I still check for updates, but am giving up the ghost. Perhaps I’m following the crowd.

I’m slow to change and acceptance, but I’m beginning to think that the public personal bloggy thing is going the way of the birthday and Christmas card.